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Marriage Mania

Over the past few months, it's been virtually impossible to avoid hearing , seeing that every Hollywood cereb is getting married, and so do my friends around. I wonder if we are a nation that has become obessed with weddings and why wedding fervor has accelerated at warp speed....Is that high pressure deadlines make women fee like they're running out of time to settle down? Dream life checklist: Kick-ass career, gorgeous husband, fabulous pad, cute babe. Timeline: fitting it all in before 30!!! If they dun get hitched soon, most of the good men will be taken and their chances of having a babe will be slim....But then, from the web, i found some interesting stuff:

WHY YOU SHOULDN'T MARRY TOO YOUNG -

1. "THERE'S A GREATER RISK YOU'LL GROW APART" You change so much during your 20s so when you wait until your late 20s you have faced those growing pains, and they dun burden your marriage (Well, seems logical and i agree)

2. "YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A PARTNER" It's often through having an active dating life that you come to know the type of person who brings out the best in you. As a result by your late 20s you have a better sense of what you will compromise on in at mate and what you won't (True, as we get older and experience life more, we know more about what we want and what we dun want, what fits to us and what is not, but there is no garantee da things we think we should deserve for can turn out to be negative)

3. "YOU CAN'T BE AS SELFISH ABOUT YOUR CAREER" When most of their workplace peers are focusing solely on the job, young spouses have to consider their partner's needs too. These couples may have to make sacrifices in their careers at a time when thy need to be aggressive (鬼吾知咩, 有等於無講, just leave it)

4. "YOU SKIP THE SOW-YOUR-WOLD-OATS PHSAE" One reason experts believe you are more ready to get married in your late 20s is because you have spent time playing the field The single world isn't this great unknown so you can leave it and not look back (嘩, 咁都得, OK agree to some extent)

Well, to settle down or not, depends if you found your soul mate, if comes nothing to AGE. 一切也是緣~~~~~~

It's early morning sunday, can't sleepy too well after a crazy nite last nite, have to sleep now... people, talk soon~

posted by ChecheBee @ 7:26 AM